HAIRY DADDY BEARS

What is a Daddy Bear?

I remember, when cruising the phone sex lines back in 1989 that I was uncomfortable describing myself. I grappled with words like husky and stocky. I hated chubby. I certainly wasn't aware of "bear." I didn't really have a sense that I was a "type." As the world grew around me, the boundaries pushed gay men further away from steroetypes. Suddenly, we begin to realize that they was more to being gay than being a certain way, and there were certainly lots of shades between butch and fem. And as quickly as it started, it then exploded. And now we have bears, cubs, otters, wolves, chubs, and a range of subsets within each. Like Daddy bears and Daddies.

What is a daddy bear? What kind of hairy man is he? What is expected of him? What are the qualifications for the job?

For me a daddy bear is about two things: age and attitude. And while all of the men on this page fall into the category of daddy. There are two who I will call Universal Bear's Daddies: Damien and Chris Steele.

Damien is the daddy who inspired it all. When I was musing about starting a site, I went looking for some content: "Just how much hairy man content is out there?" I thought. And when I went looking, I found two men that I knew I just had to have on my site: bald bear Damien and hairy bear butt man Jeff Allen.

For me, Damien was beautiful. Perhaps not a word you'd associate with a daddy bear, but why not. He's strong, masculine, hairy, he's got amazing blue eyes and a hot handle bar moustache. He's well muscled, his bald head is a huge turn on, and you have to admit, if he was looking down at you like he is up top, you'd do whatever the fuck he said. Wouldn't you?

Damien is the quintessential Daddy Bear. The problem with using a word like quintessential is that sometimes another hairy man comes along that is perhaps just as strong. But you've already set Damien as the benchmark, the one, no one else can compare. So you've got a problem. What do you call this new man?

I call him Über Daddy. And he is: Chris Steele. Because if there's a man on the planet that could top a Daddy ... if there's one man that could get daddy's legs over his head ... if there's one man that could make daddy suck cock, and suck it good, It would be Chris Steele. If there is a god, one day I'll be on my knees sucking Damien's cock and Chris Steele will be pounding his cock into my ass, and telling me just exactly how I should be sucking Damien's cock.

Since I started the site many more hairy Daddy bears have come my way, and I've collected them here in one spot. My current favourite is Buddy LaRue. He's tall, ruggedly handsome, hairy, well-built, and he has an uncut cock to keep your mouth busy. And with a wooden paddle in his hand, he's got that Daddy attitude.